Our introduction to the disabilities world came with the birth of
our son Nick almost eight years ago. Before then we had no real experience
with people with disabilities, and we harbored many misconceptions.
Most of the misconceptions cleared fairly quickly. But with clarity
came the realization that society makes life harder than it needs
to be for people with cognitive disabilities. Whether in education,
employment or recreation, doors open to the rest of us are, if not
locked, shut tightly.
The more we confront the closed doors, the more we realize that
people do not usually exclude those with disabilities out of malice
or ill-will. The barriers, it seems, spring more often from fear
of the unknown, from ignorance, from a simple lack of understanding.
And if this is true, the fix should be simple.
If we were The King of the World, we would require every person
to get to know someone with a disability. Not out of sympathy or
as a service, but as one human being interested in another, interested
in taking a walk in the other’s shoes. As so many of us here tonight
understand, once you get to know someone with a disability, the
label fades and the personality shines. The person emerges, someone
not so different from us.
Life is harder for people with disabilities. Some of the difficulty
has nothing to do with societal attitudes. People with Down syndrome
do learn more slowly than others, they are more prone to various
medical problems … and those are things we don’t know we can change.
But the biggest challenge we see is the exclusion that comes from
society’s ignorance, from the distance created by the disability
label, the perceived difference it creates. And somewhat ironically,
the greatest difficulty could be overcome with the simplest of actions:
get to know each other.
We hope you will leave tonight with a renewed spirit to encourage
others to meet the people behind their disabilities. That connection
would, we believe, give us all a much better sense of community
while giving people with disabilities the respect and dignity they
deserve. We thank all of you for attending our Sixth Annual Visions
of Hope for Their Future dinner gala, and for supporting our efforts
to make the world a better place for people with Down syndrome.
Please enjoy the evening. |